On September 2nd, 2025, our lives changed forever. Mary was just under 23 weeks pregnant when she went into early labour. Our beautiful little boy, Oisín, came into the world at 12.58pm. We held him in our arms and spent some incredibly precious moments with him. We played music, sang songs and took photos. Born four months early, Oisín was very small, but every little feature, from his tiny button nose to his hands, feet, fingers and toes, was just perfect. He was absolutely beautiful. We named him Oisín Bernard Gerard Sheils, giving him his middle names after his two grandfathers in heaven. Oisín knew only love for every moment of his short life and passed away peacefully in our arms a few hours later. In those darkest hours, we were introduced to Féileacáin, the national charity supporting families affected by perinatal loss. Féileacáin enveloped us in a blanket of support. They provided a memory box, teddies, hand & footprints, a candle, hats & blankets, and a cuddle cot. The cuddle cot allowed us to keep Oisín by our side while Mary was in hospital and to bring him home to meet our families before we laid him to rest. We can’t put into words how precious that time was. Since then, Mary and I have also received free counselling through Féileacáin. Being able to speak to people who understand the life-changing pain of losing a child has been invaluable to us. We now want to give something back. On September 4th, Mary is hosting a coffee morning in St. Joseph’s National School and on October 25th, I will run Dublin City Marathon. Every donation will go to Féileacáin, helping them support other bereaved families. Féileacáin relies on fundraising and the generosity of the general public to provide these vital services free of charge to bereaved families across Ireland. We are doing this in memory of our beautiful little boy, Oisín, in the hope that the love and support shown to us in our darkest days can be there for other families when they need it most.

Owner messages:

Mary & I have been completely overwhelmed by the response to our fundraiser! We want to thank everyone who has donated from the bottom of our hearts. We had Oisín's anniversary mass today and spent the afternoon with family and friends in our home in Ballyleague. It's been a very busy week. Mary & I WILL get back to everyone who has donated. For now,we just want to thank you all again for your generosity and kind words. It's great to see so much good has come from sharing Oisín's story with you all.

published by Brian Sheils on 06/09/2026 20:27

Training Updates:

Date:
04-10-2026
Distance:
32.00 KM
Time:
03:40
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Last weekend, I completed the Tarmonbarry 3/4 marathon. It's the last long long run. Mileage drops every week from here on. As I've said before, I'm running to finish no for a time but I should make it round the 42k in about 5 hrs or a little more.

About Féileacáin (Stillbirth & Neonatal Death Association of Ireland

Féileacáin (Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Association of Ireland – SANDAI) was formed in 2009 and subsequently registered as a charity in 2010 ( CHY – 19635). Féileacáin was formed by a group of bereaved parents to offer support to anyone affected by the death of a baby around the time of birth, and the organisation is now the national charity supporting families affected by perinatal loss. Féileacáin is a volunteer led organisation and receives no funding from central government, relying instead on the support of our community and the families who avail of our services.

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